Quote:Maybe not responsible for their actions, but it would still be their actions.
So do you agree that people that mentally abuse another can be a cause for that person's depression? (hard to disagree)
Do you then agree that this depression can be a factor in the decision to commit suicide? (hard to disagree)
Did the woman kill the man? No, but she isn't as innocent as the on-looker that was working the coffee shop at the mall.
Quote:No. I have this one account. I am who I am, take it or leave it. I don't appreciate being called out on something that I've clearly done since my first post, and I'm not trying to be anything.
That's fine, you can be whoever you want. I'm fine with that. As far as the "I don't appreciate..." Part, well, you are talking to the wrong person. I hope you can understand that I, personally don't give a [BAD WORD REMOVED] what you appreciate. Not trying to be rude. I just don't know you so I don't really care. Good night young sir.
Quote:That's fine, you can be whoever you want. I'm fine with that. As far as the "I don't appreciate..." Part, well, you are talking to the wrong person. I hope you can understand that I, personally don't give a [BAD WORD REMOVED] what you appreciate. Not trying to be rude. I just don't know you so I don't really care. Good night young sir.
The don't appreciate part was in reference to why I was "trying" to be so "legally correct". It was why I listed all of those uses of probably, maybe, statistical probability, etc.
Quote:That's fine, you can be whoever you want. I'm fine with that. As far as the "I don't appreciate..." Part, well, you are talking to the wrong person. I hope you can understand that I, personally don't give a [BAD WORD REMOVED] what you appreciate. Not trying to be rude. I just don't know you so I don't really care. Good night young sir.
"Not trying to be rude, but I don't give a [BLEEP] what you appreciate."
That is a headscratcher.
Quote:"Not trying to be rude, but I don't give a [BAD WORD REMOVED] what you appreciate."
That is a headscratcher.
Same applies to you.
At least quote it in the right order moron.
Quote:I'm going to assume that you have never done any research on suicide. The idea that a 38 year old is immune to mental abuse is incredibly ignorant, but I expect nothing less from you.
"In 2010, the highest suicide rate (18.6) was among people 45 to 64 years old. The second highest rate (17.6) occurred in those 85 years and older. Younger groups have had consistently lower suicide rates than middle-aged and older adults. In 2010, adolescents and young adults aged 15 to 24 had a suicide rate of 10.5." source: <a class="bbc_url" href='http://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/facts-and-figures'>http://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/facts-and-figures</a>
There aren't many facts in this story, and so I think making assumptions is wrong, but one fact is that she was degrading him. She called him a skinflint and a Christmas hater. Degrading is, in fact, mental abuse and has the potential to drive somebody to depression / suicide.
None of us are saying that the shopping or the mall is what drove the man to kill himself. We are saying that the stressful situation along with the degrading were factors. Again, we aren't saying that the woman is to blame for the death, we are simply saying that she was one of the factors.
Would you be such an apologist if it was a man mentally abusing a female?
God y'all are giving me a headache with this. Why is this so hard to understand??
Whatever reasons were behind why he did it, he chose to deal with it by killing himself.
Yeah...I only feel this way because she has a va jay jay!

Wonder how many on here wouldn't have called him "a stresser" if she had been the one to kill herself after he argued with her about her shopping...
Fighting back the urge to comment..
Quote:Fighting back the urge to comment..
I was too, until I didn't.
Hopefully it wasn't mine that led you to post this, cause, well, I like you WD.
Quote:I was too, until I didn't.
Hopefully it wasn't mine that led you to post this, cause, well, I like you WD.
Of course not.. I like you too duder.. I just saw the word vajayjay and got excited..
Quote:I was too, until I didn't.
Hopefully it wasn't mine that led you to post this, cause, well, I like you WD.
Quote:Of course not.. I like you too duder.. I just saw the word vajayjay and got excited..
I just want you two to know, I wouldn't abuse you too.
looks like that word vj made us all a little wierd, seems to have that effect on guys.

vj whipped.
(peeks head in door)
Did someone say vajayjay??
Quote:No. Did I say that?
I'll be honest, I don't remember anymore.
Can't we all just get along?
Women are indeed powerful. They can lead us about by the nose with the all-powerful aforementioned lady parts - and send us leaping to our deaths with the words coming from their mouths.
Quote:Maybe not responsible for their actions, but it would still be their actions.
Well, yeah, that's obvious. He jumped. But we have no idea why, so blaming him, her or whoever is just guessing. All we know for sure is that his brain somehow directed his muscles to make him jump. It's too simplistic to put it 100% on him, given how little we know.
Quote:I just want you two to know, I wouldn't abuse you too.
looks like that word vj made us all a little wierd, seems to have that effect on guys.
vj whipped.
Abuse can be good sometimes.. Sometimes.. Just don't ever try to use the safety word "ouch"...
Quote:Abuse can be good sometimes.. Sometimes.. Just don't ever try to use the safety word "ouch"...
(slaps head with arm stump) Well no wonder...
Quote:Abuse can be good sometimes.. Sometimes.. Just don't ever try to use the safety word "ouch"...
That makes me wonder, what are your safe words guys?
I'll tell you mine after I hear yours.
I like pain.. No safety word needed