(11-16-2020, 09:35 PM)EricC85 Wrote: Well i guess our relocation is on hold for good reasons. Wife’s dad is coming to the end of his time here with us can’t imagine taking her that far away and her farther passes. Not meant to be for now maybe one day.

That sucks to hear on both counts.  she needs to stick around and be there for him for the remainder.But like you said, not meant to be.  Wishing you and the family the best.  I’m sure many on here have been in your shoes.  I was about 5 or 6 years ago.  My wife was pregnant while her mom was battling a losing fight with pancreatic cancer.  Her mom (my MIL, obviously) was a really nice, sweet and caring woman.   She knew she had another grandbaby on the way.  Unfortunately, wasn’t with us to meet her.  It was a really tough time for my wife.  Understandably so.  Lots of emotions going on.  All you can do is be there for her and him.  Be the best husband and dad as you can be.  When the time is right, you will find the right property for you guys.  It’ll all work out in time, I can promise you that.

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