I agree with you...and then she'll start covering her tracks better so then you'll have an even harder time finding out what's going on.

 

Yep. Too bad she just doesn't have the guts to be honest and tell him whats going on. 

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Yep. Too bad she just doesn't have the guts to be honest and tell him whats going on.

Yeah...that's rarely ever the case.

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What in the Wide Wide World of Sports is agoin' on here???

Still being shady on her whereabouts. Man its eating me up right now. I'd rather know than not. Once I know then I can go from there. I'll be cool either way.

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Still being shady on her whereabouts. Man its eating me up right now. I'd rather know than not. Once I know then I can go from there. I'll be cool either way.

Do y'all have kids?

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What in the Wide Wide World of Sports is agoin' on here???

Yeah...that's rarely ever the case.

 

I agree. I know I've been on the side where I've been cheated on before and it sucks. However, when I was faced with a situation (after that relationship ended) where I was faced with starting to develop feelings for another woman outside of the relationship I was already in, I did the right thing and broke it off with the one woman before starting anything serious with another one. I was honest with her and because of that, we're actually still able to be friends to this day; because she respects me for my honesty and how I handled that situation and knows I can be trusted. 

 

The woman in BigJag57's situation is being a flat out scheming coward. 

 

She wants her cake and wants to eat it too. (so to speak, lol) 

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What gets me is she has radically changed her routine and is intentionally being evasive.  Surely she must realize she is inviting suspicion.

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What gets me is she has radically changed her routine and is intentionally being evasive.  Surely she must realize she is inviting suspicion.

 

I agree. Very odd.

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What gets me is she has radically changed her routine and is intentionally being evasive.  Surely she must realize she is inviting suspicion.

 

She's probably too selfish to see that or care. She wants what she wants when she wants it and too bad for anyone else, re: BigJag57. Thats her whole mindset. 

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What gets me is she has radically changed her routine and is intentionally being evasive.  Surely she must realize she is inviting suspicion.

Either that...or she thinks she's "sneaky" and there is no way he'll have a clue and he will totally believe she's hanging out with a friend.



If she's never has a password on anything and all of a sudden she does...she's hiding something. There would be no reason to hide anything if this was an above board relationship. You don't need to sneak around and hide things for a normal friendship.

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What in the Wide Wide World of Sports is agoin' on here???

.This cannot be real. I have to call [BAD WORD REMOVED]. Adults are not afraid to confront their supposed significant other.

 

Easier said than done my friend. if I'm completely wrong, then I come off completely distrusting and that's something that she'll always have. 

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Easier said than done my friend. if I'm completely wrong, then I come off completely distrusting and that's something that she'll always have.

Call up a good buddy... tell him what's going on. Have him wait close to your house before she leaves, then once she leaves, your friend picks you up and you follow her.

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.This cannot be real. I have to call [BAD WORD REMOVED]. Adults are not afraid to confront their supposed significant other.

When someone's world can be flipped in the matter of seconds based on the answer/s, sure they can, especially when they know what the answer could potentially be and it is the last thing in the world he/she would want. Why is that something unfathomable?

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There is too much hurt in this thread.

 

Big Jag, I hope you find some resolution in all of this.

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I'm trying to make myself more informed and less opinionated.

Stop saying whatever stupid thing you're talking about and pay attention to all the interesting things I have to say!

This thread started off so harmlessly.


However you do it, you obviously need to get to the bottom of it.

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There is too much hurt in this thread.

 

Big Jag, I hope you find some resolution in all of this.

 

I cringed reading his last few responses in this thread.

 

I understand asking for advice, but its just some things you handle in private.

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Whether someone has a liberal, or conservative viewpoint, a authoritative figure should not lock a thread for the sole purpose to get the last word in all the while prohibiting someone else from being able to respond.

Easier said than done my friend. if I'm completely wrong, then I come off completely distrusting and that's something that she'll always have. 

 

No way...if my wife is going out 2-3 times a week and coming home as late as yours she would at least know I have the right to meet the person, or at least offer to have me go out occasionally, especially if you don't have kids.

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No way...if my wife is going out 2-3 times a week and coming home as late as yours she would at least know I have the right to meet the person, or at least offer to have me go out occasionally, especially if you don't have kids.

This is what I'm saying. It's not distrust to question your spouse about where the hell she's been all freaking night why you were at home worrying. If anything the amount of disrespect she is showing him lends credence to the fact that this relationship is flawed at it's roots. If my spouse wasn't concerned where I had been all night that would send up as many red flags to me as me being out all night should for her.

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Looking to troll? Don't bother, we supply our own.

 

 

I cringed reading his last few responses in this thread.

 

I understand asking for advice, but its just some things you handle in private.

Agreed.

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Never argue with idiots. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

Uggh...good news is that this can be salvaged.

 

Sounds like a fling to me, but if you address it, acknowledge your insecurities and your concerns, your open communicative marriage can only improve. Radical changes in behavior without communication or veiled communication aren't great indicators for relationship health. 

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I'll play you in ping pong. 

Uggh...good news is that this can be salvaged.


Sounds like a fling to me, but if you address it, acknowledge your insecurities and your concerns, your open communicative marriage can only improve. Radical changes in behavior without communication or veiled communication aren't great indicators for relationship health.

Wow, long time no see Gabe!

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"Before you criticize a man, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, if he gets angry, he's a mile away and barefoot."