Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex?

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Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex?

Caldrac
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01-26-2014, 01:31 AM

Quote:point still stands....

what difference would it make if I had previously dated her or not in that instance?

It makes a difference. How well do you know her? Ten years or more is a long time to not speak to someone. And who is initiating the sparks here. You or her? Maybe it took her ten years to realize she made a mistake when she left you. You're both adults though, mature people. I'd just map the ground work out in advance.

Dinner, movie, wam, bam, thank ya mam!

Or, do you want...

I am getting old, it's been 10+ years, let's rekindle this fire and see where it goes, hopefully we don't burn ourselves in the process

It's your call.

"What do I know of cultured ways, the gilt, the craft and the lie? I, who was born in a naked land and bred in the open sky. The subtle tongue, the sophist guile, they fail when the broadswords sing; Rush in and die, dogs - I was a man before I was a king."

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Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-19-2014, 01:15 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by flsprtsgod - 01-19-2014, 01:19 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by TravC59 - 01-19-2014, 01:20 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Bchbunnie4 - 01-19-2014, 01:52 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-19-2014, 01:57 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Mr Sensible - 01-19-2014, 02:02 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Bchbunnie4 - 01-19-2014, 02:02 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-19-2014, 02:05 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Bchbunnie4 - 01-19-2014, 02:08 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-19-2014, 02:12 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Bchbunnie4 - 01-19-2014, 02:18 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-19-2014, 02:21 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-19-2014, 02:28 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by hendershot - 01-19-2014, 03:11 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by roycee - 01-19-2014, 07:50 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Sammy - 01-19-2014, 09:41 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Bchbunnie4 - 01-19-2014, 11:40 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by rollerjag - 01-20-2014, 06:45 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-20-2014, 06:48 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by rollerjag - 01-20-2014, 07:16 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-20-2014, 08:05 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Jamies_fried_chicken - 01-20-2014, 08:16 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by NYC4jags - 01-20-2014, 08:28 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-20-2014, 08:41 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by roycee - 01-21-2014, 02:18 AM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Monty - 01-21-2014, 10:42 AM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by HURRICANE!!! - 01-21-2014, 11:05 AM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-21-2014, 01:11 PM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Caldrac - 01-26-2014, 01:22 AM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by Caldrac - 01-26-2014, 01:31 AM

Is it ever a good idea to try and re-connect with an old friend of the opposite sex? - by The Mad Dog - 01-19-2014, 01:24 PM

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