(10-29-2020, 06:49 PM)mikesez Wrote:

(10-29-2020, 06:13 PM)Bchbunnie4 Wrote: It’s all about your ego. You got totally butthurt because people didn’t like what you posted. (1)You were worried about new people coming on the board and seeing all your down votes and thinking you were a loser. Because that’s what you said in the thread talking about it. (2)Nobody owes you an explanation as to why they don’t like something you post. 
(3)Interestingly enough, you don’t seem to need an dissertation as to why someone might have +1 a post from you though...but I’m sure this all has nothing to do with ego.

Armchair psychology is not a good look.
I was concerned that they would think I was rude or uninformed.  I could care less if they think I'm a loser.  This is the Jaguars forum.  We're all losers here!
Nobody owes anyone anything, yes.  You don't have to participate in anything you don't want to participate in.  But if you participate, if you impose on people, if you dump on them, then yes you do owe them things.  If you didn't want to take the time to explain the downvote, maybe, uh don't make it?

As for upvotes, it's not just me! Nobody demands an explanation for positive feedback!  If another woman compliments your outfit, do you stop, and ask her what her favorite part is? No! But if your sister or boyfriend or whatever says you're not looking your best, you're either going to be offended, or you're going to be asking follow up questions about if it's your hair or your shoes or what so you can look better. Would your sister "owe" you an explanation? I want everyone to get upvotes.  Are you so selfish that you assume other people you interact with must also be only thinking of themselves? Check yourself.