Quote:That's what I'm screaming. I am 1/2 and 1/2 here. One part of me think since we have historically been anti social people who mostly just stayed in the house and hung out and chilled, and we're talking years, it was good for her to go out and have a good time. I was glad that she was able to do this. 

 

On the other hand like you said, that's a long time to be hanging out with one person. I get the first night after fireworks, but then to come home at 530 in the morning, sleep till 12-1pm to get up and leave from 4pm-4am was just kind of..........odd. 

 

We've always had this open and honest relationship and made a promise to one another if there was interest or intent with another person to just tell the other person. She's the least jealous person I know when it comes to interacting with my lady friends and what not so it's like "am i being too paranoid because we never did the whole socializing thing" or "trust her and know she's doing the right thing and just really having a good time" 

 

I mean we have a lot of great things going, nice house, nice cars, good jobs, great area that we live in. Our communication is strong for having been together as long as we have. We are very active both in terms of fitness now and have been a solid 1-3 times a week for years in terms of intimacy. I don't see there being an issue there save for maybe because we've been together since high school, that little taste of what life is like outside of married life can be like. 

 

I don't know, I think I'm being overly paranoid, but at the same time how can you help it?