Im going to be real safe with this and just give my 2 cents.

 

Is your self esteem really that low to where you will let her call the shots in terms of ending the relationship. If you are not comfortable with where the relationship is heading, file the divorce paperwork, take full custody of the child, and start the child support process. 

 

if you are looking for breakup sex just to have one last good moment before both of you all walk out of each other's life, you will never move on. 

 

This is the moment where you leave feelings out of this. Business/Manhood and focus comes into play. Remember both of you are in this for the better of your child, and want little disruption in his/her life as possible.

 

I dont know if you are or not spiritual, but if you are confused about which direction to go, dont be afraid to seek guidance and or counseling. Dont use alcohol or drugs as an outlet because that will effect your relationship with your child.

 

Good luck.

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