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BigJag, I think you have to move on. She obviously doesn't want to make it work and you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you. Hit her were it hurts (the purse), hire a good lawyer and don't look back. If she's willing to walk away from it all for some "fling" then she didn't really want to be there from the start.

Just playing Devil's advocate here, but these two sound pretty young. BigJag said it himself that they've been together since high school. She may just be confused at a certain point in her own individual growth and as such, she's regressed into a more selfish, immature attitude. It happens. Usually it happens in concert with another area that is lacking in the marriage (i.e. intimacy, excitement, communication, etc.).

 

My .02 stands firm. See a counselor ASAP, then make your decision(s). If she came clean and was open & honest with you about how she's feeling, you're at a crossroads. Best not to assume and hold onto blame, especially when there are children involved. Like I said, just my input. Best of luck, buddy. It'll get better from here.

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