Has this woman ever, in any fashion, whether through conversation or action shown any curiosity or interest in a same sex relationship? If not I would have to probably question the whole it's a woman thing. Did you meet this woman? She might have thought that in some way that would lessen the blow if the infidelity was not with a man.

 

I hope things work out as you would have them, you sound like a stand up dude and don't deserve any of this crap.

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