I've been watching this thread and I feel for you BigJag. Hang in there and be strong.



As to the whole "it being with another woman" thing... I was hurting for him. Once I read that it was a woman, I hurt a lot less. I know it still hurts but just saying that I can understand the hurting less than if another man was involved. I guess the way I see it there seems to be less betrayal knowing, "oh, she has major issues going on" rather than "I'm not good enough in whatever way to keep her"


Not sure that makes sense or not. Again, I'm not saying it still wouldn't or shouldn't hurt. But at least (if all what she said is true) he can confidently walk away knowing it wasn't anything he did.

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