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As to the whole "it being with another woman" thing... I was hurting for him. Once I read that it was a woman, I hurt a lot less. I know it still hurts but just saying that I can understand the hurting less than if another man was involved. I guess the way I see it there seems to be less betrayal knowing, "oh, she has major issues going on" rather than "I'm not good enough in whatever way to keep her"

 

 

Nope. 

 

I know society wants to try and push that angle, but that don't flush for me. 

 

"Issues" my [BAD WORD REMOVED]!!..... 

 

Its no different than cheating on him with a man! Not seeing at all how it is supposed to hurt less or be less of a betrayal. 

 

Quote:....I will say that it sounds like she wants you to make the decision for her. She doesn't want to be the one to end the marriage, she still cares for you on some level but not enough to end the other relationship. She wants you to either stay with her and allow her to explore the other relationship and see where it goes or be the one to end the marriage....

 

Lets cut the crap here, the above translated into reality is this: 

 

She's a selfish [BAD WORD REMOVED] who only cares about herself. End of story. 

 

I guess the only silver lining is at least he finds this out now instead of later so he can get this out of the way quicker and move on with his life. 

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