Quote:It seems like she's already made her decision. Do you really want to be with someone that doesn't think they want to be with you and can fall into something so fast with someone else? Say she gets scared about going it alone and decides to stay with you...until the next time she's bored comes around and she's out looking for something exciting again.

The woman is not happy...she's not suddenly going to become happy. Even if she picks you, she might be able to fake it for a while...but she'll still be unhappy and this is all going to happen again.

 

After reading every post in the thread, this was the most salient I saw. IMO, If she's unsure, she is unsure only because of your history. Like Bunnie said, she clearly isn't happy with something, and that usually doesn't easily change.

 

My advice (regardless of the course you take) is to keep as even a keel as you can, both with her and your child. She will presumably still be in his life no matter what happens, and he is old enough to pick up on what's going on with each of you. She may not care, so that might mean you have to pull double duty to protect him from this as best you can. 

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