Quote:Its leaning towards separation ATM. I had a gut feeling she cheated on me and I was right. I have a gut feeling she's going to pick this chick too. Problem with kid is I have to be 100% flexible in terms of availability at my job and she has the kid friendly schedule. I've busted my tail for 2 1/2 years to get where I'm at. Once I complete my program I'll make an extra 10k a year. 5 years after that another 25k. In terms of looking out for me that's a big deal. We'll keep it friendly and professional moving forward and for now I'll stay in the area and see how that goes.

Go through your program and do your thing. Make that extra money. Idk how Indiana is, I'd imagine like florida, you being a male is against your favor of having custody of your child. If the court decides she has custody and you only get the weekend visits, keep your head up high my friend. Do all you can for your son and for yourself and make the best of it. I know it sounds hard, because let's face it it is, it's really hard especially at first. But, you will get through this. You will have a happier life in the end. As Jamie's fried chicken has asked, if your spiritual or not... Well, I won't go further for, well, I just got back to zero warning post and your hurting so I'll say it anyway, besides, I think this is worth the warning. If you are in any bit spiritual go there first. He WILL NOT lead you astray. It will pass. It WILL get better. I believe you stated either in this or another thread that you didn't have many friends to hang out with. But from the looks of this thread you have many, many people here that are here for you and support you. As for me, pm me anytime if you just want to talk, I'm sure most on here offer you the same as well. I know it's hard to see it now, but it's not the end of this time of your life, but rather the start of your new one. Make the best of it. Feel liberated. Go do the things you've wanted to but haven't. Keep at that program and further your career. Whatever it is that motivates you run with it. I'm sorry your going through this. But, we are all here for you man!

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