Quote:That's fine lol about the serial part. Im one who likes to get feedback from others and generally anyone i've spoken to has been bitter. The majority have been at least in their break ups. 

 

 

As for me, well the cat's basically out the bag. My wife is one of those women that later discover in life that they are lesbian. This changes a lot. I can understand why she did what she did, it was wrong of her in handling the situation. But you can't change who you are.

 

I get to meet the lady soon and she showed me a picture tonight. I laid out clear expectations on how we move forward and after doing so, I feel better about the situation. It's extremely odd for sure. With a show of hands, how many people have been through this situation in life after being married for 10 years. At least we made it that long! 

 

 

Did you say your wife was 45 before? How do you just wake up 1 week/ month/ whatever ago and realize "whelp you know what, all this marriage stuff was a farce, I'm really a lesbian"??? I mean, was there ANY clues/ hints of this beforehand?? Did she enjoy watching women on x rated movies with you or anything? Other comments about attractive women? or anything??? It just seems weird this late in the game. 

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