I've done the research and study online and it explains a lot. She told me that she's kind of always had it in her but never really acted/understood it. One thing about it is apart from that situation, my wife and i have been together for almost 14 years and if there's one thing she is, is honest 100% to the T. Now she is infamous for withholding information as I would have to ask her to answer, but she's being honest and i've no reason to believe that. I do know there is no chance of us getting back together. 

 

It's totally cool though at this point. 

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