Quote:Do you think you're gonna find a lot of dates while you're still married and in the situation your still in??? You got a lot of other ducks you need to line up before you sign up on dating sites...especially since you still want your wife back!

 

Everything is lined up at the moment. Now date sites can be used for several different reasons. My reasons in particular were just to make friends and maybe one day more. I won't hide the fact I'm still married if i get asked. There's a reason that we are for now. When I said I would fight to get her back, that is the past tense now. Each day, I can tell she's getting more and more comfortable with her new lifestyle. For example here's a few things that my wife NEVER did or HATED to do: She would never walk, run, or go to great lengths to not be rained on. She also NEVER wore a skirt, like ever. With this new chick, she's freaking jogged in the pouring down rain happily and just yesterday bought a skirt. And it looked real nice. We still have a good relationship which is important to make the process overall the easiest for the kid, but that got me a bit on the sad side. So I'm lonely now. I'm 700 miles from my nearest relative or friends I grew up with, but because of the things I'm trying to accomplish in my career, I have to stay put and fight through it. So why not? 

 

i met the first girl tonight. Wasn't bad at all, she was a bit simplistic which ain't bad, but I want someone who would like to travel as much as me in a few years. Or go hiking/canoeing. But she might make a good friend. 

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