Quote:Yeah. I'm beginning to wonder about this myself. The fact that he's celebrating the number of pages the thread has gone is peculiar, and aside from Caldrac, there aren't many posters here who would be so willing to offer such intimate details about their lives in a forum like this. I think many here have been punked.

 

The funny thing is....if this was Caldrac, we'd question NOTHING, lol....  

 

There ain't many posters like him! :thumbsup: 

 

Quote:I think he means that he needs help because he seems to be handling everything to good. Up until last week he was in a happy marriage and in love with his wife, now he's ready to date. He hasn't grieved the lost of his relationship yet and when that shoe finally drops, it's not gonna be pretty.

 

Oh, ok. I see what you are saying there. I agree. 

 

If thats what jagibelieve meant, then I apologize. I thought jagibelieve was just meaning because he posted here looking for advice, then he automatically is a nutjob and needs professional help. 

 

Quote:Amazing how quickly he was able to flip that switch after being in what he perceived to be a happy marriage, isn't it?

 

THats the one aspect that seems odd. 

 

I know if that was me in his shoes...I'd be taking it a lot harder than he seems to be. I mean were talking a long term marriage here that just went kaplooey and I had assumed up until the very point when she started cheating that he was in love with her. Is there a possibility that maybe he wasn't in love with her anymore by that point?? Because thats one of the few ways that I could see him getting over it so quickly/ taking it so well. 

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