Quote:Especially with a child involved. Racing out to find a new partner before you've dealt with the current situation completely doesn't show the kind of stability that is needed for the kid at this point.

 

Yes, the child is the one that should be most important to both parties. 

 

The woman has also seemed to clearly neglect the childs needs and is all about herself and having fun right now. Its going to be harder on him as the one on the [BAD WORD REMOVED] end of this breakup because he still has to deal with his own well being in getting through this as well as still be a grown up mature, parent to the child and take care of the kids needs too. 

 

Quote:Then doubt be surprised to be called a jerk! Lol


You can get to the point without sounding mean. I'm not saying that's what you at all...it's just that you can be "honest" without being "brutally honest". :thumbsup:

 

You are correct. You can. Its about having some dignity, class & tact. 

 

Many people nowadays seem to think that you can't be honest without being brutally honest/ tactless. They dont' understand that the 2 aren't mutually exclusive. (or is that are??) lol

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