Update! 

 

So things are heating up between her and her lady friend, she's going over there this weekend for the weekend. My son's biggest concern was being uprooted and having to move away from his friends. The great news is that's not going to happen. He's a trooper and has taken it all in stride. So really we are functional. In about a month or so, we will be drawing up the paperwork to make the divorce official. It's been a smooth process so far and honestly I'm fine about it all. Like literally in no way shape or form can I draw some form of hate,resentment, sadness, etc. Again as mentioned above, I'm a total weirdo. 

 

For me things are going great. I've successfully passed 40lbs lost so far and feel great. I'm talking often with this one girl who seems pretty cool. She's extremely ambitious and works a lot which is perfect for me as I'm not looking to dive into anything right away, rather if it's meant to happen, it'll happen. Right now we're quickly made friends with past baggage and happen to not mind sharing it with one another. 

 

I can't help but smile about this whole thing because in a lot of ways, I'm happy again. What some would consider one of life's most devastating events has turned into some really positive and bright things ahead. Again, total weirdo. But it works for me. 

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