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I can't help but smile about this whole thing because in a lot of ways, I'm happy again. What some would consider one of life's most devastating events has turned into some really positive and bright things ahead. Again, total weirdo. But it works for me. 

 

BigJag, I'm glad you're doing okay with all this and whatever works for you is great as long as the kid is not being affected negatively, which seems like he's not up to the moment. 

 

But I do have to ask this: That first sentence is peculiar where you say you're happy again. Now, are you trying to say that even before all this went down, you weren't really all that happy with your marriage? Is it possible that you weren't in love with her anymore before all this started? I'm only asking because I'm trying to draw a correlation between how its been so easy for you to seamlessly and so quickly move on from what would usually be a very stressful time in one's life. 

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