Quote:So blame the perpetrators , let's say some black kids, who you called N, then popped you upside the head?

But explain civilized? The terrorists are not civilized IMO. But I guess because we have a right to inflame a subject matter, we are more civilized?

Again, let's say that there's a church that decides to host a gay wedding.  An offended party decides to shoot up the place because it offends them.  You blame the people who decided to have a gay wedding at a church?

 

You're de-escalating.  What about if you go up to a black person and call them the N word, and they shoot you?  Are you 'asking for it'?  

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