Quote:We're talking about two different things. "Man in a dress in the ladies' room" would result in a bunch of white knighting from Romeo outside, I think that would be an instant fight.

Well.. You are making a great point. Trans people are at risk of violence from a lack of understanding regardless. Despite the fact they are in 99.99% of the cases harmless. I propose the trans person I describe would be less likely to be intimidated or attacked if they use the ladies room. Perhaps this little exercise gives you some perspective of what they go through on a daily basis and helps you to accept the reality it is not something they would choose for themselves if they could.

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