For some reason this topic keeps popping in my mind. Maybe it's the the "obvious answer" or it's the lack of "thanks guys, I think I'll stay here with my boy" reply from the OP. Maybe I'm just impatient. But the longer the time goes by without having questions answered that have been asked by other posters or an update I'm started to feel it was more so for validation to leave.


If that is the case, and only if so, then my reply changes from being a helpful board member to a blunt stranger.


The blunt stranger in me wants to say that every father in the world has one thing in common. They are all males. You've got to be a man to be a father. So ask yourself, "Am I man enough to be the father this kid needs?" If not, leave. If so, Man on and be a daddy.

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