Quote:Families rarely agree on everything and in the case of a family member being murdered you undoubtedly will have some who will be open to forgiveness but not all. I left nothing out, you pointed out another poster should take cues from the cousin who chose forgiveness, I gave you the other side of the coin.

 

The thing is, I quoted the one family member in the original story and you chose to leave that quote out in your comment.

 

Which is the better cue to take?  The one for forgiveness or the OP who has an agenda?

 

Should an 82 year old woman be charged and go to prison for something that happened in a totally different era?

 

The message that the family member communicates should be heard by a lot of people. "Hate destroys the hater, too. That’s a heavy burden to carry.”  Think about that and answer the question directly above this paragraph.

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