Quote:Am I allowed to hold on to the belief that a lot of times, my thoughts and opinions don't really matter all that much and probably don't add a lot of value so I'll just keep them to myself? Or does that mean I'm a "snowflake" or a "children" or a "deplorable" or some other derogatory term?


Also, as far as avatars go, gaining self-reliance on just about any level is something that we can all strive for. It's a good thing to feel a genuine sense of accomplishment for one's own actions. Yes, we all need help from time to time and it's good to ask for help when we reach confusion, but making situations such as this a learning opportunity can go a long way towards personal development.


Oh wait, there I go giving my opinion again...