You did not answer the question but that's ok. If you think American pilots or their  "higher ups" are okay with bombing civilians you know VERY little about the US military.

I don't like to play "what if" but in this case you seem to think you know exactly how I would react to Iranians bombing a hospital, so I'll play.

You have no idea how I would react so I will tell you.

I would not be surprised at all. I know that Iran is the largest sponsor of state terror in the world. Iranian terror kills thousands of innocent civilians each year. So my reaction would be muted because I expect this type of behavior from the Iranians.

Sadly, you have equated the Untied States with Iran with respect to terror.

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