Quote:I've determined that it's a lost cause. Either you physically kill someone or your not even remotely connected to the person's death. I bet everyone that's ever been bullied truly appreciates her logic, "Hey, buck up kid. He didn't throw you off a seventh floor balcony so he's done nothing to impact you whatsoever!"

That's okay...I've concluded it's a lost cause too. Maybe life is easier when everything is always someone else's fault , or caused by someone else, and you aren't responsible for your own actions.


You two do realize that he was a 38 year old grown man and not some prepubescent teen, and that it was only five hours in a mall, she wasn't having him do something stressful like smuggle Jews out of nazi Germany or anything!!! Five hours...less time than it takes to go to a jags game.


Five hours shoe shopping in a mall...dear god...she must have drove him to it!!




Him having depression, or her being a complete [BLEEP] aside...here is the cliff notes version: He chose to date her...he chose to go shopping with her...he chose to throw himself off of a balcony.


Now, she can be up there with the worst girlfriends on the plant and Queen [BLEEP]...but he was still with her. His choice.


She could have forced him to go shopping with her, but unless a weapon or brut strength was involved, he decided to go. His choice.


Maybe she nagged him the whole five hours and he couldn't take any more, he still chose to jump rather than leave. His choice




What ever demons he was dealing with, ultimately the decision to end his life rather than deal with his life was all on him. Agree with me, disagree with me, I don't care.

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