(11-21-2019, 11:55 AM)NH3 Wrote: I wish that my brother was still alive. I wouldn't care how stuck up he may have been. It's a peivelidge to still have siblings above ground.

Cherish them while you can.

NH3...

When your siblings (or other family members) lie, steal and emotionally manipulate and abuse you....a line has to be drawn and they choose that line by their behavior. Those of us left in the ashes and ruin just reinforce that line for self preservation. 

Just to give you an example of her mindset; when we were kids she told our dad that our stepdad was molesting her. Dad goes to the police and we're all hauled in for questioning. Long story short is she was lying and admitted she lied and never apologized. Her excuse for the lie? She was mad that they didn't let her do what she wanted. She was 14 years old. She is now 45 and her mindset is still to destroy people who don't give her what she wants. 

So yeah, there really is no love lost there.

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