(04-30-2020, 11:54 PM)JagsorDie Wrote:

(04-30-2020, 02:09 PM)Kane Wrote: People that are like "oh she could pass for 18" weird me out.
Like.... I see 14 year olds nowadays that could pass for 18. Something in the water. Antibiotics in the chicken... I dunno.

Point is... it isn't the point what they could pass for on looks.
A 27 year old grown man should know better.  If you need to check an ID, they are too young for you.


He nasty....

That’s where I am too. I’m 29, one if my buddies who never settled down is with a 21 y/o and all our boys give him [BLEEP] about her being young. 

It isn’t because of her appearance or actual age, but more of her mannerisms and personality traits that can’t quite be put any way than “she’s young”. Even though there is only an 8 year difference, you notice a difference. She isn’t stupid and there isn’t one thing that points to this, but it’s noticeably there. This isn’t the first time stuff like this happened. Most people feel the same. If you don’t and you are single, you should probably start asking for ids lmbo. 

That’s why I find myself on the “he should have known” side. 

That’s just me though.

About 10 years ago. When I was 21, going on 22. I was seeing this girl who was 18 going on 19. I only went out with her three times. The deal breaker? She said she was in school, and I assumed college, but she was referring to high school and for whatever reason, in my mind, I interpreted that as "She's too young for you bro. She hasn't even started working yet full time and you're starting your work and life now at full time". 

That's just with a 2 - 3 year age difference. And I was literally in that same spot a whopping 2, 3 years ago. Had she been in college my mind probably wouldn't have thought too much about it. But I felt like Seth Rogen's character in Pineapple Express where he was dating and competing with a high school girl. It was creepy to me. 

Ultimately it worked out for the best. But looking back on it I was a dick for that mindset.

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