I think one big reason we remain divided is because the impression each side has of the other comes from their own media.  The right wing media tells right wingers what the left is doing and saying, and the left wing media tells left wingers what the right wingers are doing and saying.  

And people go to their "comfort media" and get pounded all day about how evil the other side is.

I'm a moderate.  You people, left and right, need to stop hurling insults at each other and start talking about actual issues.

And also, understand that your "comfort media" is misleading you for profit. 

I voted for Biden, but I have friends who voted for Trump.  I also know someone who said she could never be friends with a Republican.  That's ridiculous.

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