I shaved my head down with a #2 guard once when living in Germany. It was weird with people staring and thinking I had cancer or something. The people who stared and made a big deal? Not the Germans because they didn't care. Americans can be some of the most judgmental people and they were the ones who made a thing out of it. I'm like- mind your own business.

Jada and Will have put their lives out there and people are going to judge them or use it against them. Or make a joke at an awards ceremony. Whether it's right or not isn't the issue. If you let people know your business it gives them things to gossip and speculate about. No one needs to know about her affair, their open marriage, his reaction to a fly committing suicide on someone's windshield. Whatever. Keep your mouth shut or say "no comment" and let it be.

I don't feel bad for either one of them.

And if I had a disorder or disease and someone made a snide comment about it I'd likely let it go. I was straight up bullied while growing up because I was one of the tallest girls in my school and I was skinny. Back when being that skinny just wasn't "attractive". I wore the big 80s glasses and had the 80's hair without even trying thanks to my curly hair. I definitely had to grow into my looks. There's not much people could say to me that would bother me enough to do violence on them but if they did- I would do the violence, not my husband. I stand up for myself.

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