(02-18-2024, 06:05 PM)Lucky2Last Wrote: [ -> ]Oh... and I'm happy to have the debate about what should and shouldn't be normalized, which is the intentional creation of norms. It's not like I'm a fan of cross dressing. However, the fundamental difference is that your preference is rooted in reality, which I can at least understand, even if I don't think it's ideal. That last part is subjective, and I'm open to debate that.
Don't worry Lucky, I take very few things personal anymore, you'd really would need to be attacking my family or real close friends of mine before I lose it. Yes I have triggers that I will take personal if someone it attacking me but, there are only 2 of them and only a few close friends know what they are and respect them.
Now, you say my preference is rooted in reality, which it is. I'm not trying to act like a woman nor am I identifying as one. I believe that biological men should not be permitted to take part in women's sport's. If they can't cut it in the men's division because they lack the skills to do, I say tough excrement!!!!! I do not involve kids in my lifestyle but, if someone is at an age, say like 16 and up, and has some questions or is unsure of who they really are inside and would like to talk, fine with me. I think people from the age of 16 should have the information they need on subject matter such as this so they can decide what it right for them. I mean, even if they decide later that it's not right for them, they can always turn back and take another fork in the road. (unless they already had the surgery then it's way to late.) I'd rather that someone has access to the information and be able to talk about it so they don't go off half cocked and then regret it later in life. That's just the way I feel about things.
Now as for myself, like I've said before, I'm just more comfortable in the attire that is usually found being worn by the female of the species. I am not ashamed, nor am I embarrassed by it. I'm comfortable and confident in my own skin to be who I am from the very depths of my soul. And if anyone has any legitimate questions for me, fine, let's talk. But on the flip side of the coin, if anyone has a personal problem with me being me, well,that's their problem and I'm sure as hell not going to make it mine.
Let me close this rant with one of my favorite quote that I've more or less been living by my entire life......
“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!”
Hunter S Thompson, The ultimate gonzo journalist!!!!!!